Tag: Holiday

    Be Kind and Reach Out To Others During The Christmas Holiday Period

    One need not be a psychologist to see that this time of year is very hard for a lot of people emotionally.  Sadly, Christmas and New Year’s celebrations along with any other celebrated holidays remind silifke eskort ilanları many people of happier times.  Since then, many family members may have grown apart, developed into separate units or simply lost interest in the concept of family or your part in it.  There also are problems of divorce, separation, death and distance from loved ones that keep people apart.  Television and concerts bombard us daily with the joys of Christmas.

     For those of us who have loving and caring family and friends near us at this time, the following are a few things to do to make life happier for you and help others who may not be as happy at this joyous time for millions.

     1.  Give a smile and a friendly hello to people.  This can make a person’s day.  We sometimes forget this is often a time of personal isolation even in a crowd of people.

    2.  Call relatives and friends that may be alone, away from loved ones, grieving the loss of loved ones or just having a hard time emotionally.  Let them know you care.

    3.  Invite persons and relatives to holiday events who you know are alone and would greatly appreciate it.

    4.  Invite someone to breakfast or lunch you feel it could be helpful.

    5.  Volunteer at church and/or community events as possible.

    6.  If a Christian, focus on the birth of Christ and his message of love and forgiveness.  To give and receive reasonable gifts for Christmas is nice but we must not lose track of what Christmas represents.

    Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

    Holiday Period

    The holidays can be a very difficult period for persons grieving the loss of loved ones, struggling financially, feeling a loss of happier times, separated from loved ones and in poor health.This is supposed to be mersin esc the happiest of times as we hear the glories of Christmas and the holiday season. We must remember as joyful as it may be for you, many persons are suffering. The joys you may not have only magnify the unhappiness one may feel. If you know someone suffering this holiday time, do the following as possible:

    1. Be patient.
    2. Listen and be empathetic.
    3. Share a hug, smile or even a cry if appropriate.
    4. Share spiritual values and beliefs to give strength.
    5. Share a happy story.
    6. If a Christian, delight in the birth Jesus Christ and which he means to all Christians.

    This topic is discussed in a recent podcast from a segment I did with Jack Ebling on “Ebling and You”.
    The best is wished to each and every one of you as we enjoy Christmas, one of the world’s greatest religious holidays!

    Seasonal Affective Disorder

    Over the years, I have treated many anamur eskort kızlar persons for Seasonal Affective Disorder. This is a common disorder in a State like Michigan when there are cold and overcast days in the Winter. I believe the following Question/Answer may be helpful to you or someone you love.

    Question

    I dread winter more every year. I get so down and lose so much energy. Poor concentration, feeling guilty, binge eating, sleeping every chance I get, always tired, lack of motivation, moodiness and being irritable is what I become. I’m there! I’m not like this during the rest of the year. At least bears get to hibernate and don’t torture themselves and others. I love to see people but now have no interest in seeing anyone. My family tries to be helpful but I can see they stay away from me when they can. What’s wrong with me and what can I do to change?

    Answer

    It appears you have what is commonly called “Seasonal Affective Disorder” or SAD. It is a seasonal depression that occurs generally between November and April in colder climates when days are short, clouds often are in the sky and the temperature is cold. In the Northern climates percentages of people are seen to range from approximately 3% to as high as 14%. This higher number probably also includes persons who get the Sub-Syndromal/Winter Blues and generally do not like winter but do not have the severe symptoms of major depression.

    You have many of the classic symptoms of SAD: Lack of energy, sleeping all the time and still always being tired and run down, poor motivation, guilt for how you feel, eating too much, difficulty concentrating, irritable, little interest in social or daily activities. In a way, you are hibernating from your normal personality and life patterns. The lights have literally gone out for you emotionally.

    As you are painfully aware, there is no doubt that SAD is a terrible depression that greatly impacts one’s life when one is experiencing it. Only recently has the general public come to understand it.

    The following are some steps to take to help overcome your Seasonal Affective Disorder:

    1. Exercise and keep your body healthy. This will also help keep your mind sharp.
    2. Maintain a healthy and nutritious diet. You need to fight off food cravings.
    3. Consider the use of Light Therapy to replace the lack of sunlight. Increments of 15 minutes to a few hours are typical at different times of the day. Mimicking dawn can be done with a timed light that acts as if the sun is coming up in your bedroom.
    4. Counseling to help you be more productive and focus on the beauty of winter as well as helping you be out and about when your tendency, due to depression, is to sulk away in a dark corner of your home. It can help you develop your own overall multi-faceted program to end SAD once and for all.
    5. Dress warmly and walk outside in the cold when the sun is out to both get exercise and grab as much sun as you can get. This is an action too often overlooked by persons with SAD.
    6. Consider medication. Medications like Zoloft, Prozac and Welbutrin are often effective when prescribed for SAD. Talk to your family physician or psychiatrist as to what could be the most appropriate antidepressant to use.
    7. A complete physical also might help to eliminate any other problems that are causing your symptoms.

    It is not unusual for persons with SAD to use one or more of the above suggestions at the same time. For example, counseling and medication would be a common combination.