This is a Question written in to me at 1320 WLNS silifke eskort numaraları Am Radio on the Tony Conley Show.
Question:
Dr. Braccio: How do you change someone’s perception of you when they feel they cannot count on you or trust you?
Answer:This is a very difficult perception to change. The following are suggestions assuming there is some legitimacy to the perception:
1. Talk to the person and honestly try to come to an agreement on future interactions.
2. Do consistently what you say you will do. Simple, but difficult for many to do.
3. For emphasis, you will do what you say over time. Only uncontrollable circumstances can change this.
4. You try to agree to do things that are helpful. People will trust you, count on your word, want to be around you and as a bonus be their friend.
As a final word, “Integrity” is earned over time from being consistent and helpful to others. Like a garden, it must be maintained daily and can be lost as quickly as does a storm to a garden if one’s word is no longer truthful.