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Question
Dr. Braccio:
I am exhausted and frustrated. I only have one child and she is overwhelming to me. She will not mind me and must be told ten times to do anything I want. I get louder and louder. The routine is wearing me out. What can I do?
Answer
You need to get a behavior chart for each of you. You can chart how often you must tell her to do something. Set up a system where the sooner she does it she can get a star or something that when combined, you can get her something she wants. For example, she can go to bed later by fifteen minutes. You can bring her into the process and have her involved in what the positive results will be if she does what you ask without the whole frustrating process. Some negative consequences can also occur is she refuses to change. An important strategy to use is to applaud her when she is doing what you want. This is a powerful tool to get her to do what you want. People love applause and encouragement.
For you, you can use a chart to eliminate your “nagging” or constant asking her to do what you want. Ultimately, consistently asking her to do something turns her off and she does not even hear you. By monitoring yourself and her, you can bring about the change you desire to best help both of you. This will not be easy and will require hard work; however, the positive results are worth the efforts.
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